How To Become The Person Of Your Dreams
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HOW TO BECOME THE PERSON OF YOUR DREAMS
Introduction
Becoming the person of your dreams is a process which must be dully and well followed. It requires principles that must be applied in our everyday life but very unfortunately many have lost sight of these truths making them build castles in the sky while dying in mud houses here on the earth. There’s more to dream fulfillment than to just telling them when you are not able to take actions steps that will bring them to pass. In the journey of becoming who you are divinely meant to be, you must know your true self, how to bring to work the abilities God put in you and how to rise above the limitations your family and society put on your life. This is what this book is all about. Welcome to your new world where greatness is achieved and your dream about your future is made a reality.
Chapter One
Chapter One
It’s Not A Mystery
It’s possible to be happy and fulfilled in life and make God’s heart desire a reality in your life. With God all things are possible that’s why He put that possibility in you to make His dream for your life a reality. God’s plan and the mental picture for your tomorrow must not be allowed to remain dormant or inactive. Whatever God says about you or shows you about how your future looks like must be brought to reality without excuse whatsoever. The kind of person you have been dreaming to become must not remain a mystery to you. That colorful and beautiful picture of your tomorrow you always dream about must not remain unattainable because your creator is counting on you to bring about and manifest who you are meant to be. Lack of knowledge of how to turn your dream into a reality has made many people live their lives in a dream world. You are responsible to making your dreams come true and your maker will hold you accountable if you fail to do so.
Do you have a dream of how your tomorrow would look like? Are you tired of your current life and desiring to manifest the picture of your tomorrow in your mind? If all you ever wanted is to become who you are created to be in the land of the living, then this book is for you.
To know oneself they say, is the beginning of wisdom. Someone once said: “ Knowing who you are is the greatest wisdom a human being can possess…” Many people do not know who they really are. That’s the greatest tragedy of all times. Your concept or mental picture about yourself matters a lot. Who do you think you are? Lack of knowledge of who you are leads to a frustrated and a confused life and many are experiencing it daily; that’s why they cannot be happy or fulfilled in life. Friends, you are who God says you are in line with His purpose and plan for your life. You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are precious and unique to your maker. You are so special for Christ to have gone on the cross for. You are not a nonentity or a mistake. You are God’s masterpiece purposely created to dominate, subdue and become a blessing to others.
In the journey to becoming what you have always dreamt about, you must not allow your situations or conditions of life to give a definition of who you are. They are part of the process to make you become who you are meant to be but must not be allowed to be determinants of your future.
Who are you? How do you see yourself? Who do you think you are? How do you picture yourself today in fulfillment of your dreams tomorrow? Some people see great future about their lives but cannot figure out great opportunities today to make that greatness a reality. They know their future is great but they remain chocked by negative thoughts about their present conditions they find themselves in. If you are coming to be great tomorrow, you must not allow anything to reduce you today. There’s a need to know who you truly are, that’s your power for great future. If you are having problem defining who you are, the beautiful dream about your future will remain an exercise in futility. Do not allow other people or your current situation to tell you who you are. Knowing who you truly are is the gateway to becoming the person of your dream.
The choices you make today determine how your life will be like in the future. As a matter of fact, you are the way you are today because of the choices you made in the past. Knowing who you are and what your maker says about you will help you take the right decisions and make good choices. How do you want your future to be like? How do you see yourself in the future? Make choices that contribute to the manifestation of your dreams. The decisions you take are paramount in making your dreams a reality. Do not take any decision in haste or in anger. Think critically and take good and positive decisions in line with your dream. The picture of your tomorrow lies in the kind of decisions you take today. The ball is in your court.
Holding oneself in high esteem is key to becoming who you are meant to be. It’s not pride or arrogance. Self- esteem refers to the extent to which you like, accept or approve yourself or how much you value yourself. Self- esteem always involves a degree of valuation and we may have either positive or negative view of ourselves. Self- esteem is also your feeling of self- worth based on your beliefs about being valuable and capable.
Your self-esteem is high if you have a positive view of yourself. High self-esteem leads to confidence in your abilities, self-acceptance, not worrying about what others think about you. You hold yourself in high-esteem if you are optimistic about a prospective and great future no matter what you are going through today. Do not have negative view about yourself or your future. That’s the pathway to fulfilling your dream in life.
If you fail to love yourself and accept what God says about you in the situations you find yourself in now, you will find it difficult to attain the greater height you desire in life. Value yourself no matter what; no one will do that for you. Do not look down on yourself because of what you are passing through. Don’t accept the definition of your current condition as how your life must be forever. You are valuable and divinely endowed with greatness. That’s what must engage your thought daily.
Many people are suffering from low self-esteem always comparing themselves to other people they think are better, richer or more prosperous than them. They always want to be or look like others. You are not created to compare yourself with anyone. You are to compare yourself with yourself. You are not here to speak, dance, look or be like someone else. You are here to be the person you are created to be and that must always be in your mind. How was my life yesterday? How is it today? Is this the kind of life I am created to live? What can I do now to be the real “Me” That’s what must engage the thought of your heart not to live a frustrated life trying to be like someone else. Comparing yourself with others is not wisdom because the person you want to be like desires to be like you too. To live comparing yourself with others is to live a tragic and unfulfilled life. It’s suicidal and deadly to your God given dreams for your future.
“ For we dare not class ourselves or compare ourselves with those who commend themselves. But they, measuring themselves by themselves and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.”
2 Corinthians 10:12
In the journey to becoming the person you have always dreamt about, you need to develop good and sound relationship with others because you cannot bring that dream into reality alone. Human vessels are vehicles God uses to bring to pass His purpose and plan for us. That’s why you must treat people right and be in good terms with everyone. Those who desire to be great and outstanding must be very careful how they treat people they come in contact with. God has put answers to our problems in the hearts of people we come across and those surrounding us. They are channels to our great destinies and if you miss them, you will struggle through life blaming the devil for your fate. Be nice to people, respect and value anyone that comes your way because you never can tell.
However, no matter what happens, eagles will never keep company with chickens. It’s not pride or arrogance. The company you keep determines what accompanies you. Walk with people who will make your life, character and skill better. When you surround yourself with good people, you become a better person for a great future. Keeping a good company is key to becoming the person of your dream. Choose your friends carefully because the people you spend time with can influence your attitude, thoughts and success more than you think. Above all, avoid the company of a fool. Selah.
Whatever comes your way can be surmounted, achieved and successfully accomplished. God is expecting you to bring to pass what He put in your heart. What do you think of yourself? Positive or negative results subsequently become feedback for one’s personal experience and thinking.
You are able enough to make things happen. You have the ability and the capacity to become the person of your dream. God cannot show you a future or put a dream in your heart you cannot make manifest. Change your belief about your chances of successfully making things happen. God has already given you the power, the ability and the skills you need to become the real YOU. Your dreams are not just mere dreams. You are divinely equipped and wired to successfully bring them into reality. Don’t waste your time and energy thinking otherwise.
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